A personal memoir guaranteed to:
Remind you that you’re not actually as crazy as you think you are.
Rebecca’s down-to-earth, relatable stortytelling will make you realize all the times you’ve questioned how everyone else has it all together were completely unfounded. No one has it together. In fact, we all have so much in common, there will be times when you swear Rebecca is you. (Don’t freak out. Crazy is the new normal.)
Make you question all the advice you’ve ever been given.
“Go to school! Get good grades! Get a great job! Be smart!” How is any of that particularly helpful? We’ve all been exposed to varying degrees of advice from a variety of (mostly) well-intentioned people over our lifetimes. This book will suggest that maybe all that advice wasn’t relevant and at some point, we need to drown out the noise from outside and seek the voice from within. Yes. The voice from within...did you know you had one? You do. And she’s screaming to be heard.
Encourage you to find the funny.
Even though life is certainly not all funny, Rebecca desperately reaches for humor in every moment because no matter how tough life gets, there is always, always, always something to smile about. And let’s be real...there are times if we didn’t laugh, we’d cry and we can’t just sit around crying all day now, can we? No one wants to hang out with that person.
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In the book, you will discover:
You’re Looking For Your Value in All the Wrong Places
Of course, you kick ass.
Day in and day out, you tirelessly—well, maybe you occasionally find yourself a wee bit tired—strive to ensure that everything is handled.
From work meetings to carpools, from school party planning committees to piano recitals and every random doctor’s appointment and approaching project deadline in between, you are the one handling it.
And because redundancy doesn’t hurt, let’s say it again: you kick ass at it. All of it.
But, when you lay in bed at night, you can’t help but question whether all the stuff you do is enough.
Whether you’re enough.
Because, if we’re honest, no matter how amazing we are—and really...we are amazing, aren’t we—we know there are times when we let people down.
And even though deep down, we know it’s impossible to please everyone all at the same time, we can’t squash those nagging feelings of guilt and self-doubt.
The world will try to convince you that your worth is somehow based not only on the number of balls you can keep in the air at once, but how well you balance them all, and because we must always “raise the bar”, you’re also judged by how perfectly manicured your nails and shaped your eyebrows are while you’re juggling.
It’s a losing proposition. For every single one of us.
But here’s what no one tells you.
Your value isn’t found in what you do.
You could let every single ball drop and you still aren’t any less valuable.
There Will Always Be People Who Simply Don’t “Get It”
All the people in your world have a definitive opinion of who you are. Along with those ideas come specific thoughts about how you are expected to behave.
When you fail to act in alignment, those same people—sometimes, even the ones who really love you—may become confused or uncomfortable and may judge you for it.
And that’s OK.
No really, it is. You don’t have to live your life to make other people happy or less confused. Or hell, even comfortable.
It’s OK to Change Your Mind
When you were young, you likely made plans about what you wanted to do and become when you got older. You fantasized about what you wanted to do and swore there were things you’d “never” do.
Then, life happens. Plans change. You change.
Suddenly, you find yourself walking down a path you vowed you’d never explore. And you feel like a fraud.
You may even feel like you’re flighty, fickle or worse yet, directionless.
But here’s the good part: you are allowed to change your mind. Did you actually know that?
With the exception of having kids—because really, it doesn’t get much more permanent than that—you have the right to change your mind.
You just need to give yourself permission to realize it’s OK.
About the Author:
REBECCA UNDEM
Rebecca Undem yearns to live in a world with bold, inspiring people who aren’t afraid of making mistakes; with a forever-full cup of coffee in her hand, preferably nut-flavored.
A professional development expert with nearly two decades of experience, she’s a highly sought-after speaker, traveling the country, sharing her message of how to live BIG regardless of what you do for a profession or where you happen to be.
When she’s not writing or developing solutions to help individuals, communities, and businesses grow and challenge the status quo, you can find Rebecca cleaning up a variety of messes made by her three children or her farming husband.